Everyones life, relationships, expereinces, and hardships are different. With mine, I've had to put up an amount of patience to deal with it. I'm sure you can say the same. They say be thankful for what you have, you have food on the table, a safe place to sleep, and clothes on your back. I'm thankful for everything I have, but the food on the table isn't a certain thing for every single meal these days, my safe place to sleep sends me a warning letter for eviction everymonth for late submissions of rent and the clothes on my back, though fits my mood just fine, they aren't torn, aren't hideous, aren't hand me downs, aren't even all that old, but they lack the trendyness of my social life, I can't wear a new dress every time I go out, when I am able to go out, and I'm happy enough with just wearing one of my many jeans.
My problems aren't as much of a problem as much as they are all at once. Maybe just hearing about them will make me look selfish. They aren't meterialistic, and they a